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Oh, Mr. Keillor,

You've made me remember. Every Veteran’s Day, Mary Lois Brunker, who celebrated her 90th birthday in 2013, arranged a tribute to the veterans who worshiped at the little fundamentalist Church of Christ where I grew up. It usually consisted of special music, a reading, and the presentation of a small token of appreciation to each of the men who ever belonged to the United States’ armed forces. Veteran’s Day mattered to Mary Lois. Veterans matter to her. At nineteen, she watched so many young men her age, including a brother and husband, leave their lives behind to serve their country. Many of them never came back. Those who did survive that war are gone now. At Salem, we lost two of their number that year, so that day’s service was especially poignant.

Mary Lois came to me before worship and asked if I would stand in for my father. All she wanted was for me to come forward when she called Daddy’s name and accept the token on his behalf. When she said, “George Marsh,” I stepped into the aisle and walked up to the front where 9 year-old Will Johnson handed me a white carnation with red, white, and blue ribbons tied around the stem. Just to stand in front of the congregation where my father should have been was humbling enough, but while I stood there and she called the names of the others, I began to think just what it would have meant to have stood in for my father.

The inscription on the Marine Corps monument in Washington D.C. is truth. "Uncommon valor was a common virtue." Every fighter on that island, including the Japanese, was a grand man. First in the navy, then attached to a marine unit, Daddy spent six weeks on the island of Iwo Jima during what is remembered by history as some of the fiercest, bloodiest fighting of the war. His job was to bind wounds. All he had was a little morphine and a few bandages. He didn’t even have water to wash his hands, only sand. In six weeks, he did not have a shower or change clothes. He learned to sleep through mortars falling. He was sustained by the twenty-third psalm. Daddy was wounded in battle and treated his own wound, never even reporting it. He carried the scar. If you were to ask him about it, he would tell you it was just a flesh wound.

When they were burying the Japanese, many of the bodies were already in foxholes that they had dug themselves. The men were warned that some of the bodies were booby trapped. The marines took turns testing for traps. He said he had to take a volcanic rock the size of a basketball and throw it onto a body and hope that it didn't explode.

He left a Higgins boat on February 19, 1945 nineteen years old, standing 5'11" and weighing 165 pounds. Six weeks later, he was still 5'11" but he weighed 130 pounds. He was essentially deaf in one ear from a mortar shell that fell too close.

Three months after the battle, he was awarded a bronze star. He had gone out under fire and risked his own life to save the life of a wounded man.

For most of my life, he wouldn't even talk about his experiences. He just carried them around in his head. Near the end of his life, he told me that even though he saw hundreds and hundreds of men die, saw limbs and heads blown off, and holes in every part of a human body, none of it was as hard as watching my mother die.

I stood in front of a congregation in HIS place

Thank you for shaking lose that memory.

Love,

Dawn

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Ron Perowne's avatar

My mothers first husband, Russ McConnell, was torpedoed on the St. Lawrence River near Quebec City during what few people know as The Battle of the St. Lawrence, WWll. Russ asked his very best friend, Ron Perowne, to take care of his wife should anything ever happen to him. Every sailor aboard that boat died. Ron Perowne kept his word and married Russ’s widow. He is my Dad. That’s Friendship.

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